It’s difficult to put something as delicate as a person’s life in someone else’s hands and expect the best outcome. Call me a control freak if you will, but if my machinations are the thing to fail, then at least I know how to improve it.
Not the healthiest way of dealing with it, I know, but the letting go process is even harder and this isn’t really the best place to be experimenting with it.
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That makes sense. It sounds like you both are the sort to protect your own.
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I think he's similar.
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And I imagine that will to survive is part of why trust doesn't come easily.
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Not the healthiest way of dealing with it, I know, but the letting go process is even harder and this isn’t really the best place to be experimenting with it.
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Each person is doing what they can to get by in life. It's difficult to fault one for working with what the world gives them.
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Yes, well.
Sometimes that part isn’t pleasant either.
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Anyway, I have to go and psyche myself up to be vulnerable. Thanks for the info.
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It's what we're here for.