How to explain. I didn't know what to make of circumstances, when they first occurred to me. There are many sorts of motivations a person can have in their dealings with you, particularly an unknown person. I've learned additional information and ruled out some of the worst theories since then. So I have no qualms about continuing to speak, but I'm uncertain how to proceed.
Yeah. Absolutely shocking. [don't be rude, gemini. but they seem to recompose themselves after that.]
It's not about being talented. Surely you speak with people you work with? Others from other Houses, perhaps? How do you approach situations in which you do not have all the answers?
[there's actually a slight quirk of a smile when they say that. edgeworth wouldn't put it like that, so...it gives her some indication of who gemini is.]
That is a little different. In my capacity as the leader of a House, talking to others that I want something from is not the same as...trying to get to know someone.
Mm...no, I guess that's true. [they actually pause to think on this.] ...I knew someone like you, once. They also weren't exactly well-versed at talking to people unless they needed something from them. But even a simple "hey, how are you, what's your favorite snack" can go a long way.
Opinions are a bit trickier, but it's one of those things where you have to give a little of yourself to get a little from someone else. Nobody likes to feel as though they're sharing too much without a return.
Harrowhark it is, then. [they seem a little relieved at that. and also drop their hand after a moment.] I think I would like to get to know you on your own merits rather than what's in the notes.
I think the same can be said for anyone, but they are simply notes about your home history and the history of your time in various places such as your Station. It was best for us to be as prepared as possible for when the guests arrived.
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[more lip chewing.]
How to explain. I didn't know what to make of circumstances, when they first occurred to me. There are many sorts of motivations a person can have in their dealings with you, particularly an unknown person. I've learned additional information and ruled out some of the worst theories since then. So I have no qualms about continuing to speak, but I'm uncertain how to proceed.
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It may surprise you to learn I am not talented at either, and do not know how to answer.
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It's not about being talented. Surely you speak with people you work with? Others from other Houses, perhaps? How do you approach situations in which you do not have all the answers?
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That is a little different. In my capacity as the leader of a House, talking to others that I want something from is not the same as...trying to get to know someone.
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Opinions are a bit trickier, but it's one of those things where you have to give a little of yourself to get a little from someone else. Nobody likes to feel as though they're sharing too much without a return.
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I see what you mean. This is the first conversation where I've felt I understand a little more.
[not about conversations but who they are.]
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Sorry. I think perhaps I should follow my own advice more often and give a little more than receive. That may have helped before.
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Would you like to start over? I think...that may benefit both of us a little to reset.
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[a pause.]
Un...less you would still prefer to be addressed as Miss Nonagesimus.
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[she doesn't mind Miss Nonagesimus, but it's a specific person who calls her that in those tones.]
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[oh she makes a face at that.]
I am sure they are not flattering, but I cannot say they are wrong.
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[...]
Yours really weren't that bad.